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Thank God it’s Friday!

Today is February 29, my 4th anniversary with Nana. Unfortunately, I got diarrhea and fever since last night. I spent this evening by holding a simple dinner. I hope I’ll be able to marry her soon.

This afternoon when I rode my bike back to home for lunch, I’ve got an interesting inspiration about words from our mouth. Did you ever thought that we could say something or answer a question by 3 answering methods? They are:

1. Answer / say whatever just to make the other pleased.
2. Answer / say everything wisely in a diplomatic way.
3. Just say it honestly from the bottom of your heart.

If your girl/boyfriend asked you about her/his appearance before a romantic dinner or went to a party, what should you say while your opinion gave a better appreciation to a clown than a prince/princess charming stood right before your eyes that time?

Should you please her/him by saying, “You are wonderful tonight babe!” because you did not want any stuffs flied to you and successfully landed on your head? Or would you say, “Oh my God! That’s awful!” directly in front of her/his nose to express your true opinion? Whatever, you used your 80% capacity of your brain for the 1st method, meanwhile the 3rd method had a lot of heart but not a lot of brain. Then what about the best 2nd method? Well, your heart will do the first strike, but you won’t spit anything from your mouth before your brain do its job well by analyzing and digesting every single words.

If your brain works in a harmony with your heart, or your heart is controlled by your brain to arrange a better sentence to tell the truth to somebody in a nice way, always do that every time without complaining how hard it takes, I can simply say that you’re very good in Diplomacy.